Category: Dating and Relationships
Well, someone who is gentle , loving, and who has muscles. Someone who is strong and who can stand up to anything. I would like someone with blue eyes, tall and someone who could protect me from danger. Oh, yes and soeone who I can go and talk to when feeling down. After seeing him I shall know that I will be warm and merry once again.
I am a guy there for I can't post about the perfect dream guy, but I can certain convey what I think the general thought is. Strength both emotional and mental seems to be a big thing. But, at least from what I gather. The most important thing, besides looks is how they treat girls. In movies it's always the romanticism who gets the girls. It's always the guy who has got the charisma. charisma is a good thing to have, and if you don't have it, go buy some. Lol.
Liam
that is definetely true thanks for responding
Brandon Boyd of Incubus or Jason Boyd of Audiovent. Dave Grahl is sexy too! Those those guys have is what makes the perfect man.
I already have the perfect guy. He's kind sweet, charming, sweet, and sensitive, and caring.
He is my perfect guy. Although no one can be perfect Lol
personally Jen. I htink I'm perfect. or would you disagree? grins.
Liam
Perfect lol nobody can perfect.
I want a guy with shoulder-length straight or wavy hair, preferably blonde or dark brown. Blue or brown eyes, has to be taller than me. Thin...not scrawny though. Unique name. Maybe an occational smoker...I just think that's kind of hot.
I don't care what he looks like as long as he's there for me when I'm down. My b.f usually is their when I need him.
My dream man, must not contol me in any way. For example telling me to not study the things I want and so on... Maby strange, but I would be happy if my bf had a long and complicated last name. Do not know why. but it is just cool. One more thing, I do not want a bf who is to perfect.
tyson ritter or ewan mcgregor or jude law or orlando bloom. haha! im so superficial. well, i know i have my type when it comes to appearance, but the most important things are a sense of humor, a strong personality, and a lot of respect and love for me. someone who will stand up for me even when no one else will. preferably someone tall heehee!
Joe Elliott or Rick Savage both from Def Leppard. Actually, anyone with a British accent. *blush* What? Did I just say that? *major blush*
That's hilarious. LOL The accent!!!
I want a surfer guy with a toned body, nice tan, straight teeth and keeps me entertained.
I don't know...I'm in a kinda bad mood so maybe shouldn't be replying to this topic, but at the same time I really ant to because just writing this would make me feel better? I think. Anyway, it seems to me, not really by reading all this, but just by my previous life experience, that all or 99.9 % of the girls want a guy who looks like a supermodel, has a lot of money, big house and big car. It really anoys me! Seems like noone any more cares about person, personalitty, inteligence, sence of humor, having fun and all those normal and more important things in life than fucking money and god damn fucking looks. I have quite a bit of money, I woudln't consider my self rich, becuase I'm not, I can't just go up to any shop and buy anything I want just because I feel like it, but I have quite a bit of money, well enough to lead a confortable life, have everything I need and maybe a few extras. But, because of that, I was used for money by girls before, of course I've learned my lesson and now I'm a lot more careful, but it just seem to me the more nice I am the more crap I get in to, the better I treat girls I get treated like a pile of shit more and more, so why bother being nice? Maybe I should just give up being nice and be a total arsehole, maybe it'll get me somewhere. OK, I'm not always like this, tonight's bad mood and a headache contributed to this, but thing I've experienced and seen really make me feel like what I just wrote. Ah well...OK, I'll calm down really, I promiss, the keyboard is still in 1 piece, lol.
Hey. I just read your post.
I guess I'm one of the few girl's who do not want a super model, or care whether or not the guy has a lot of money. I want a guy who is down to earth, knows himself, and knows what he wants. Of course, I do care about looks, but when it all comes down to it, we all pretty look the same underneath the outer surface. It's not about how a person looks it's about how the person presents themselves. and how they treat people.I'm totally blind, but I've seen some extremely ugly people out there. I've dated a few worthless fucks who could care less about me. All they care about is how good I am in bed.
Anyway, most of us are blind and probably have some of the same self-asteem issues.
So, don't stop being a nice guy. There are still some of us women out there who are looking for guys like you. Hang in there.
Hi...well thanks foryour responce and incouridgment, hmm, I should still be nice? Well I guess it is good that there are still girls like you, I bet they could be counted on fingers of my wright hand or something...wel I have heard from few other girls in life things like what you aaid and it always happened so far in my life that girls who do say similar things to what you say happen to be taken, but yeah, maybe I still shouldn't give up being nice, maybe there is someone outthere who does actually want to be respected and care about who I am and not about what I have or what I look like or how much I can buy them
I can totally relate to the fact that most of the nice respectable guys are either taken or unavailable. I can also count on one hand the few guys that I have dated who actually treated me with respect and appriciated me. I haven't dated many guys, but I think there has only been one guy who valued me, and even that relationship didn't work out. But, don't give up yet. There are still a few of us women who are looking for the "nice guy"quality in a man. I know the one most important quality I am looking for is someone who wants to be a friend, someohne who values me for who I am, and what I have to say, not just who they think the want me to be My philosophy is, be a friend first, the rest will come later. I want the person I'm with to get to know me first before they start trying to get to personal if you know what I mean. I want it to mean something.
Well I've said enough and mu Jaws has expired, so if you see any typos, it's because I'm typing without a screen reader. Guess it's time for Charisma to get a real copy of Jaws..
Gee thanks! Charisma is not for sale.
Liam, you're too funny!
Well, I'm blind so I guess I can't be totally supperficial now can I?What i look for in a guy is a sense of humor and someone who is an all around nice person. He has to get along with my friends and I have to get along with his friends. I love guys with accents! although you know what they say:there are only 2 perfect guys in the wourld...and they're with each other!
I love that one.
Oh and he can't be a homophobe.
I notice that a ot of girls, not necessarily the ones on here, take things too seriously. I can be serious, but I'm also about about being a smartass some times, and people who take things out of context or take more value in something that I said than I really meant it aren't for me. I guess that kinda limits my choices a bit, though.
Well yeah that's another thing, I want a girl who got a good sence of humor, I don't want a girl who's easily offeneded, I might have a bit of a weird sence of humor, of course, when ned be I can be serious, but I don't like girls, or people in general, who take everything too serious in life and who get offended easilly.
Hi. I find it hard to find girlfriends. NOt sure why. Maybe its due to the fact that I cant' hear well, so don't go out to parties much. I I'm very outgoing and speak my mind. Thogh sex is nice (Though I haven't even gone that far yet), it is not the most important thing to me. I'm a flirt with some people though, and in a girl I want smeone that is understanding, open, and outgoing. I like people in general who believe in me and my wants an dreams. LIkewise I'd do the same for them. Someone that will isten to my advice when givin. Oh t they don't have to do what I say, but at least listen to what ai have to say. I'd do the same for you.
Peace out,
John
Well, appearance doesn't really matter to me, but I don't want someone butt ugly or something. Athletic guys are really atractive, but I also really like musicians or someone sensitive like that. I want a guy who likes to talk and has a sense of humor, and values family like I do. I want someone who's spontaneous, sweet, loving, and intellegent. Lastly, I want someone who accepts me for who I am and doesn't want me to change for him.
Yoyieee...!
This is hard, oh so hard.
Smart, intelagent, street smart?, caring, out-spoken, honest, blunt, has a sense of humor, can be somewhat athletic, willing to take the fall, meaning not just leave if shit happens, I mean hell shit happens, haha.
Doesn't mind that I talk a lot, varry open minded, relentlessly crazy, *that was meant as a joke,*, but hey if your crazy, right on!
Not homophobic, I...Can...not...deal with homophobic people!
Yes, this was probably to broad, but ya know, torico is a lil' broad minded.
Take care,
Cort
Yeah, interesting, as you said lots of things in your post, but, yeah, that's 1 thing I can't stand when guys leave when shit happens, I always try to be with a girl, not that I had 1 lately, but you know, I always try to deal with and help when bad shit happens and I think it's very important. Well I already posted a few posts ago what I'd hope a girl would want from me, but think that you made some good points about stuff like that guys should be there when shit happens and, again, like I said about what charisma said, it's nice to know that there are girls like you that care about more important things in life like someone's inteligence, sence of humor, personalitty ETC. rather than just how much they could buy you.
Ok. Here we go! Charisma has been inspired.
Now, about guys who leave when shit happens. About five years ago, shit happened, I had a child! And, yes, her father was too fucked up, or too young, or whatever, to deal with the responsibility that was, and still is, rightly his. But shit happened. And because of certain circumstances, he can't be there. We broke up when my baby was 6 monthhs old, and he has been in and out of her life ever since. Because he's too fucked up in the head to take responsibility for his own flesh and blood!
About two years ago, I got back together with my ex-feancae, bear with me, I don't know how to spell it, and I fell, hard, for him all over again. At first, he was all about being there for Chyanna and I, and then, shit happened! He decided it was too much responsibility for him! And, now, hahaha, 2 years later, he says he's finally ready for a commitment! Lol. Too bad for him, eh?
So, yeah! I'm sorry if it sounds as if I'm bitching, but I've had more than a few guys leave as soon as the pressure was too great, or they just couldn't handle what I had to offer. And, so, maybe, someday, I will find a man who is willing to take the fall, stand beside me, love me, and my daughter, and share my life with
Ok, i'm done!
Ok, so i'm not done. I kind of felt like i need to elaborate a little on this subject, so, please bear with me.
When I found out I was having Chyanna, I decided that no matter what I was going to do whatever it I had to do to give her the best life possible. At the time, I hoped that her father would play more of a role in her life, but as I stated earlier, shit happens, and you can't draw a map in situations like that. So, now, I'm lying in a bed I didn't make by myself, and, although I know it's done all the time, there are millions of single mothers, and fathers, out there, raising children on there own, but the fact of the matter is, children need both parents. And if one or the other can't be there, they need that extra attention they're not getting from the absent parent.
So, I watch my little girl, and I see the way she is with male figures, such as my brother, who's 21, and has a life of his own, and not always a positive influence. Anyway, my daughter clings to any guy who's nice, and is willing to pay attention to her, so much so that it scares me! I remember how it was for me, growing up without a father, and how I craved that male attention. I carried it on in to my teen years, and early adulthood. It is true that boys and girls alike, need a father figure/male role model in their life, but girls especially thrive on that attention. It breaks my heart to see my daughter climb all over some guy, whether it's a friend, or a nice stranger, and just eat that attention up. I was aksed the other day if I had ever considered getting a father for my child. I kind of had to laugh at thatquestion, because, honestly, I think about that all the time. I wonder what it would be like if we had a "normal' if I can use that word, family, with both parentsinvolved, and how different things would be. I want that so much for her, and for myself, and I know it's possible, because my sister, who has two children from a previous mariage, found a man who was more than willing to play the role, and fill in as stepdad to my niece and nephew, and he just adores them, and they him. So, I'm not saying, woe is me, I give up, it's just not going to happen, because I might happen someday, but in the meantime, while I waiting, I need to learn to play the hand I dealt myself and my baby girl when I had her. But I do wish , for both my daughter and I, that we would find somone to make our family of two, a whole someday.
So, now I really am done! And, I'm sorry if I'm turning this post, in to my own personal bitch board, I just had to get my thought out here. So, thanks for reading this.
Hey charisma, wel we talk on regular bases so you know that I I regard you as a very good friend and respect you and really hope that you do find someone who'd take you and respect you and your daughter because you are a really nice girl and a nice pserson and you deserve someone like that. I don't know...as I said in my reply to torico's post,if I loved someone truely and loved them enough I'd go through the all shitwith them, if it happens to be my girlfirend being pragnent and leaving a birth to a kid I'm sure I'd stay with her. I know it's easier said than done, but if I loved her enough and plus the factthat it's our kid, as much as I woudln't relaly like a kid, or at least at the moment, I wouldn't have a heart to leave a girl. Something like tha never happened to me, and I hope never will, I hope that if i'd have a kid with a girl that it'd be a decision rather than an accident or a surprise but even if it happened to be so, I dont think I could leave her. Also, forgot to say in reply to torico's points, I don't think you talk too much and, I'd rather go out with someone who talk a lot than someone who hardly talks, in fact I couldn't go out with some1 who hardly talks because I talk a lot and if she doesn't than it'd make me feel like she's not listening and makes it quite boring too.
Yo, stop saying you're a bitch, just because you are saying what you think (and I think) should be said you are not a bitch, and those people who think she is should know that women are as capable as talking as men are.
James
Thanks, James. love you to! I, am, not, a, bitch! There, are ya happy? Lol, and I will not stop saying what I think. So, not to worry, Charisma is, and always be, her honest self!
Wel? I've found him! I've finally found my dream guy, and on da zone for that matter. Go figure.
Not only does he love and respect me, want to be there for me, and with me, he wants to take it all on, me, my little girl, and fill the role in our lives that we both have so needed for so long. So, yeah! I just thought I'd post this, and sign off this topic once and for all.
*big hugs*xxx xxx xxx TL. Love ya!
6ft 2, strong build long hair & goth, intelligent,good sense of humour and above all patience.
Hmm an interest in the outdoors and nature a tolerance of my passionate Scots/ Italian temperament.smile
I found him well rather he found me 14 years ago and became my brother and despite the fact that we are unrelated he's straight and so he can't reciprocate my love in a sexual way.But at least he's in my life all be it in sweet torture.
Hmmm, my dream guy is tall, dark hair, caring, not too athletic but not lazy either (I hate jocks because they're full of themselves). Also loving and willing to always be there. Not someone who obsessed with sex.
I definitely dont go by looks. thats why i dont have much requirement on that subject. I look more for a great and loving personality and a great sense of humor.
Lol all ya gals better keep on dreamin bout em cos seriously if you start dreaming of "the perfect guy" for you with all these features, um .. you are never ever going to be happy as you call it. :) .. Yes, "dream guys" are talked about in movies/fairytales but .. yeah ..
I don't have a built up immage of who I expect to be my future partner. Just as long as they're kind-hearted, easy going, friendly, sense of humour/smart-arsy, helpful, and .. and ya know .. everyone is unique so if they can bring anything extra, well and good! .. one slight dream I guess .. or at least as close as I'd come to a set feature is that it would be a great bonus if they were a computer-know-it-all geek cos well .. they do wonders for me. guess cos I use my puter way too much and like my guy/gal to be able to help me or directly fix my puter problem. And so I can show off their skills to my friends. :) .. nah seriously puter/any techo knowledge is a big turn on for me! :)
Oh and to the person who likes guys to have huuuuge last names .. Lol I will start looking round for ya! :) lol
Cheers! :)
THe perfect guy: Hmm if there is such a thing anymore.
Someone who is sweet, caring, romantic, affectionate, loving, someone who has a sense of humor.
Looks dont matter to me although I can see. Personality is the biggest key. (I made a rhyme there LOL)
anyway I dont care how long or short the hair is, The first thing I notice about a guy is their eyes of course LOL I dont care the color but I do love guys with either blue or green eyes. I think that they are beautiful.
I also dont like players. or cheaters.
When I get into a relationship with someone i'm there to stay for the long run.
I also like a guy who understands me and my feelings etc, LOL Right now I am interested in someone, but I am always looking for new friends.
Hey yall,
I've got someone now who's as "perfect" as is humanly possible.
He cares about me, and can be serious when we need to be. He can be funny though to in his own ways, and the craziest weirdest stuff amuses him, and thereby I am amused and happiful.
A plus: He is an amazing singer and musician. If he chose to, he'd go way way way far! I'd be like a phanatic or something!!!!!
He's a Christian, a definite must. He gives things to the lord without fail, and helps me to do the same. he has no shame in praying for me, or asking me to pray for him.
He has ambitions, dreams, and goals, and is doing all he can to fulfill those even now.
He knows that I have dreams, ambitions and goals, and supports me in them.
He can sit and be silent and enjoy it for what it is, and then we can be loud and crazy and weird at times, too.
He cares about me, not who I ain't or who I could be if he changed me. He cares about my feelings, be they good or bad; he cares about my keeping the faith...
He is just so amazing, such a gift and blessing.
If we don't talk on the phone everyday, we don't freak out. Our relationship is strong, thanks in part to what we are both giving to it (our all) and thanks to God for being in it all the way.
This is the perfect dream-guy, persay, as perfect as can be. Am I saying "oooo he's perfect and never ever screws up"? nope, just saying he's "close enough to perfect" for me. God hasn't finished shaping and molding my angel into who He wants him to be, but nor has He me. Lord willing, as He shapes and molds us, we'll continue to grow closer, keep our feelings for each other, let this relationship grow stronger and stronger, and keep God where He needs to be.
This is the one I love, and I am sooooo sure of that... My mama doesn't discount what I say either, we've talked. And my angel: he knows how I feel.
When you least expect blessings, they come into your life. Remember that, and you'll always be fine. Good things come to those who wait and in my eyes, to those who give it to God. I did both, and see the results.
In Him,
Dixie
well I have my dream guy now. He is 23, smells beautiful, honest, sweet, tender, respects my values AKA not having sex, caring, loving, respects me ect. No, he's not perfict, and neither am I, but he's him, and thats all that matters. No one is perfict, and I don't really believe in dream guys anyway. You will never find you're dream guy, because most people need that to be something of a perfection. I have to say that I think that having guys like my radio man and Internet King who care for the girl and not what they can get from her are helpful. There aren't many of those left. Internet king, keep lookin though, cuz like Cherisma said, there are still a few girls like her, torico and I, who do want guys for the right reasons, and who don't use them. I don't understand the big deal with money anyway. I wasn't brought up with lots of it, and I don't really care that much for it. I mean it would help if the person was successful, but it's not everything. I would rather have someone there when the goen' gets tough. To cherisma, I'm happy for ya, that you found someone that will help you out. You truely deserve it, and I hope it all works out for he and u
There's no such thing as the perfect guy. You'll see the guy's good and poor qualities. You'll see his good and bad habits. The perfect guy in my eyes is a guy who will treat me right. Not take my negitivity or anger badly. That if there is such a thing in brewing then work the differences out and come to compromise. A guy who will help me with the daily chores like either do laundry or clean, not just sit on his tuff watching tv. Someone I can share my likes and dislikes with. Something he and I can do together. But so far the men I date are all nice and all at first but after the first 3 months they go from good, to bad to worse and when worse happens 99% chance of a break up.
Nobody's perfect. Part of love, when your in love, is being able to accept each other's faults/flaws, and let the good things overrule all that. Jes and I have flaws, both of us do, but we see those, work with/around them and go on. God helps us with that, we help each other, too.
In HIm,
Dixie
Hey Japanimangel thanks for nice and encouriging words..well yeah, I gues it is nice to see that there are some decent girls still outthere, sometimes, especially if I'm in a bad mood, it feels like there's noone outthere, that I'm alone, that noone believes in my values, that there's no point, but I'll keep hoping and keep being the person I am and maybe one day someone will see something in me. Blindvi, I agree with part of your post where you said that part of a relationship is to accept someone's anger, noone's perfect, we all get in a bad mood, angry, anoied, we can deal with it, try to help each other or just ignore it, ignoring anything in a relationship is not a good sign and usually will not end up with anything good, and yes, also that compromise is very important, I'm always willing to compromise with anything in a relationship, also wht you mentioned about guys who just sit all day and do nothing, i'm not that type of person in general, relationship or not, I can't just be at one place doing nothing all day..OK sometimes I sit in front of computer for quite a few hours, but even then I'm either working or being entertained either by talking to people or doing something fun/interesting on the net.
personality is the number one thing for me, and looks are last. i just dont get why people are so worried about a guys outer appearance, but i guess i never will. i want a guy whos down-to-earth, loves god, and respects my friends and family. the biggest, and definitely most important thing is that he respect my values. for instance, i believe in staying pure until marriage, and if he doesnt mind waiting until then either, thats how ill know if he loves me, but if he leavs me cause i wont have sex, then thats fine too, cause i dont need a man like him to begin with.
well first of all i want someone whos christian like me, not someone who just *says* theyre christian, someone who really believes. someone who has the same political views also. also someone who has the same goals as me, like i dunno if its in gods will (which seems evident right now or something close to this), id like to be in a christian hardcore band to glorify his beautiful name, be a uth leader, not necessarily a uth pastor but a sub leader or maybe even a youth pastor, and i really wish to go on missions. i want someone who doesnt want kids, well thats where i stand right now anyway lol i dun wan no kiddies! lollol. um and if the guy ends up being hot hey, thats a nice bonus, but i really dun care about that crap anyway. i prefer 4 him 2 b sighted. no im not implying that i dun like blind guys but i have had bad experiences with a good number of them. im not saying all blind guys have issues, there r very *few* nice ones ive ever met. like tony aka saiyan4414, john m aka ride_man,... juan aka lou,... timothy aka trssharp... ok i dun care if theyre blind or sighted 4 i know god will find me someone.
I agree; there's no such thing as a perfect guy, and you don't have to settle either. I love my BF, and am in love with him, with all my heart. We have similar interests, though different enough to share new experiences together. He's a jack of all trades and has so many talents; I wish I was as well-rounded as he is. He really gets high off of helping people, especially those he is close to; I love that! He's not perfect, but then, if he were, he wouldn't understand my imperfections. sure, it'd be awesome if he were rich, and sighted, and thinner, and... But when it comes down to it, who cares about those things when you're already attracted to someone? Respect, connection, understanding, communication and good fun, (and good sex when you both are ready) will keep the spark alive. He shares my values, especially honesty and kindness, and shares my goals and ambitions. we disagree just enough to make it interesting and teach each other something, but we agree enough to keep the connection going. Neither of us is religious, but we're good moral people who enjoy helping others.
when I meet him I'll be sure to give you a detailed description.
My perfect dream guy well we just broke up but when we were together it was really really good he was willing to or we were willing to sacrifice a lot just to be together but my parents ruin it all
he is Simple, smart and affectionate
really Hot and is always thinking about my happieness and really cares about me . I do the same
i still love him, and i'm never gonna get over him .
ahh, I just love bringing up these old posts...
ok, not that looks matter much, but they do have SOME impact on your attraction reguardless of what ya say so...
my dream guy would have straight light colored hair and green or blue/green eyes. Tall and thin of course, not the dark and handsome type please God no! He'd be musical and not necessarily romantic, but have a sense of humor. He'd want to live in Montana near the woods. He wouldn't have to be a sissy, but I don't want an asshole either. Ahh, such dreamers are we. well, there ya go, I'm done now, I feel really stupid haha
OK. I noticed I hadn't replied to this one, so this is what my dream guy would be like. *smiles* In appearance, he'd be tall, dark with very curly hair or thick straight hair, and strong. Personalitywise, he'd be honest, reliable, kind, intelligent, have a good sense of humor, and being romantic (not so much as in flirting, but just in sincere compliments and pampering me once in awhile.) Also, he'd have an accent (preferably of a tonal language or at least a trace of it).
Hmm, the perfect guy. Well, let's see. Someone who is 6 ft or taller, blond hair, blue eyes, athletically built, and well hung. Lol, a woman can dream right? Oh yeah, if you have a Canadian, british, or Australian accent, that is a big plus.
You will never find the perfect anything. It's a false ideal to strive for.
Agreed why do you chase the constant need for perfection..having said that I'm heavily into Rugby a game played by real men..and recently its winger, and double try scorer, 6ft 2 and 15 stone, Sean Lamont.For his effort, modesty & humour realistic attitude and his never say die spirit.
I want to marry my best friend.
I'd like the one i merry to be my best friend.
To the woman with the little girl. You are brave and admerable. You sound like a good mother and you truly want to do what is best for your child. I applaud you. Ok, now, someone said that because they were blind they weren't superficial. I say, yeah right. I'm not saying that that spacific person is superficial them self, but just because you're blind doesn't mean that you are not materialistic or superficial. A blind girl or a blind guy for that matter can be entirely too caught up in how their partner's voice sounds, how soft their skin feels, what hight and weight of partner they want, what style and length of hair, etc. A blind person can be shallow about asthetic features just as much as a sighted person can be. My perfect guy would be sweet, sensative, kind, gentle, complex, artistic, musical, love children and animals, appreciate all walks of life, cultures and would respect all religions and sexual orientations. He would be tollerent, intelligent, rational, for the most part, but also passionate. He would allow me to pleasure him, not only in bed, but by buying things for him, cooking or cleaning for him, giving him gifts, telling him how I feel about him, etc. He would recognize how important communication is and would always try to resolve issues or conflicts with me, giving our relationship a chance and not walking out on serious conversations or storming out during a fight. He wouldn't be afraid to cry in my arms, to change a baby, to try new music and food, to scoop up a kitten and exclaim, aw, how cute!, to experiment in bed, to show his vulnerability, to confide in me and he would not be afraid to love me or be loved by me.
Hmm, my dream guy. well, my dream guy would have the insight to listen to what I say. He wouldn't have to be perfect. It's unrealistic to think there's perfect people because there's not. My dream guy would stay when times got rough, and tell me things will get better. My dream guy would be inteligent, a man with diverse interests, and would give me my space. He would respect my opinions as I would respect his. Compromising would be the way we fight, and he'd love life as much as I do. He would like simple things, but would know about other stuff. And he'd send me roses, and do little things a lady likes.
My dream guy would love me, would be caring and sweet but he'd also fight with me too. He would put up with my arguments, and give them right back. He'd like being outside and doing things, but he'd also respect my solitary nature.
He'd make me laugh, compliment my writing of course, be intelligent, and all those other mushy things mentioned in the posts above.
I have been thinking about this ever since I posted. When I lost my husband four years ago, I thought I'd never want to start a new life. But I do. It's time to move on. Now, I want to fall in
love someday, and be really in love, and it not be one-sided. You know how it feels: heart pounds when they come in a room, so shy I can't express the way I feel, so head-over-heels that I know without a doubt he's who I want. His faults would not get in the way of our relationship. Sounds funny, but my special person would pursue me, tell me how happy he'd be with me. I guess that sounds to good to be true , but we have to dream right? Keeps us going.
Never loose that dream. It is a beautiful dream to charish,.
The conservative hero the one who can think well, respect woman, can possess true love, shares values with me, sees ethics the same way, quiet, calm, collected, not involved in the rough croud, and excepts me.
A man who drinks strong alcahol, none of that sweet wine shit. A man with rough hands and broad shoulders and a deep voice. A man who works hard for what he has and has a good heart. A man who likes the country life. A man who respects me, calls my mama "Mam" and my father "Sir." A man with a killer sense of humor and a warm heart. A man who loves to get close and loves sex. these are not inorder from most important, but that's my dream man. Oh, and he's gotta be at least 5'8 or so, that's how tall I am. haha
I have the perfect guy right now. I don't want to lose him, so I'm trying to do whatever I can to keep him. His physical appearance is very hot. He is about 6 feet tall, he is blac, he has dreadlocks down past his shoulders, he is strong, but also soft. He has big soft lips and a soft touch, but he can fight too. He has an amazing scent. He is very sensual, and he does a lot of things physically to me that make my head spin and send me in a trance. He is very smart, and very tallented. He has a strong mind and knows what he wants out of life. He knows what his oppinions are about things and is very sure of himself. He is very sexual, and I am too, but he doesn't ever force it or pressure me. Half of the sexual pleasure with him is me liking it. If I don't like it, he doesn't get any enjoyment either. He never pressures me in any way or makes me feel bad for my thoughts or beliefs. He cares about me but he isn't overly sappy or emotional. He isn't afraid to express his emotions but doesn't overdo it. He is very deep as a person, and isn't all shallow like most people you find out there, even though he seems like it sometimes. All the girls like him, so I have to watch my back sometimes because I don't want him stolen from me. It makes me feel good that out of all those girls who fall all over him, I am the one he chose to be with. He wants a family and he's talked about marrying me. That's rare for a guy to bring up. He likes to cuddle, and so do I. A lot of guys don't, so I appreciate that. He likes to have me close to him when we sleep. He does swee things for me but not for self-glorification. I could go on forever about why he's my dream guy, but that would be way too long of a post. I'm just sayin, when you find that person, hold on to them and don't let them go because they're really hard to find.
A combination of my husband & best friend, perhaps favoring the best friend: 1) I must feel comfortable talking to him & not feel as if I'm being scrutinized like a microbe or condemned. 2) If drinker cool but no falling down drunks, after 8 years being married to a smoker, no smoking. 3) Someone who is stable employment wise, can stay, if not in the same position, with the same company for a couple of years at least, unless he's in a field where job change is common, like sales. I wouldn't have a problem with a guy who sold Fords this year and Toyotas the next, for example, but having worked for a counseling center for battered women & their spouses, not being able to keep a job for a reasonable time can be a red flag for some men. 4) Someone who can treat me with equal dignity as a human being, but doesn't necessarily believe in "equality of the sexes". 5) Probably should be at #1, but am so not in editing mode: must be kind to animals & young children. 6) As I've always had an easier time having intelligent conversations with older men, would prefer someone 10-15 years my senior. That's it for now...
My donkey? :P
My man is a tall, tough, sweet, affectionate cowboy. There it is, that's my dream guy. :) ruggedly handsome and tough but sweet.
well i have my dream guy but i if i didnt have a my dream guy i would probally go for somebody like my brother he not really my brother but i call him my brother cause ilove him like a brother im not going to say a name out of respect of him.
huh? Call me stupid, but ... what?